My sister tagged me . . .

How did you meet your spouse? We have no memory of meeting. There is something we suspect of our "meeting": Greg moved into his new appt. which happened to be two of my best friends' appt. So I just walked in and no one was home, but I heard the shower going and the door was open (I'm assuming). So I poked my head in and asked who it was, and we started talking. This happened to Greg and it's something I totally would have done. I really doubt anyone else would have. So it probably was me.

How long have you been together? In one month, our first date would have been 3 years ago. We have been married 2 years and 7 months.

Who said I love you first? Greg. We both knew it was coming. We hadn't seen each other or talked in 3 weeks as he was in Brazil with his family. We said everything except "I love you" in emails the whole time he was gone. I went to visit him at his parents' house and the first moment we were alone we kissed and he smiled and immediately said "I love you." I'd been waiting 3 weeks to tell him and at that moment I suddenly felt strange but I said it anyway. I don't think I've ever told him that.

Who is smarter? Now I think I am very intelligent- but Greg DEFINITELY has a LOT more. He blows me away all the time. I love how smart he is. I think I'm ok with it because I know he thinks I'm smart too.

Who does the laundry? I HATE to do the laundry. I dread it more than ANYTHING!!!! But I probably do it the most. Just because I have more time.

Who does the dishes? Probably me, but only because, once again, I have more time. We used to have a deal where Greg would cook and I would clean. But it switches back and forth ALL the time.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Now this is going to blow you all away . . . we swith all the time. 3-6 months go by and I need to switch- and then we do. I just need change.

Who pays the bills? Me! Me! ME!!!! It's possible he's paid one bill . . . maybe. I used to wonder what he would do if I died. I handle ALL the business stuff. I try to make him sometimes, but it doesn't happen. But I confess, I like to know it's done.

Who mows the lawn? Yeah, we don't need to mow the cement we live on. I planted some flowers and I think Greg planted a tomato plant (in pots) last summer. We both watered them.

Who cooks dinner? When we first were married cooking STRESSED ME OUT!!!! Greg would ALWAYS cook. Now I love to cook- when I have the energy. We both go thru phases.

Who drives when you are together? Greg- always. I hate to drive. Greg's a WAY better driver than me. Looking back I can't believe I haven't killed MANY people from driving- I am not exaggerating. I'm much safer now but ever since my accident I just get NERVOUS when I drive.

Who is more stubborn? No one. Sometimes I say no to something and I'm totally freaking out about whatever it is. And then an hour goes by and I realize I'm ridiculous and change my mind. Greg is so good and just patiently puts up with me.

Who is the first to admit when they’re wrong? So completely me. I never have a problem saying I'm wrong and once I realize it I want to immediately remedy it. But I can hardly think of a situation when Greg has been wrong anyway. Pretty sad.

Who kissed who first? Greg kissed me and it was 1/2 a second. I kept going in for more and he'd pull away before a second had even passed. After like 10 kisses like this I look at him and ask, "You don't make out, do you?" And he replies, "No. Is that a problem?" And I answer,"No. But it's disappointing."

Who proposed? Well techniquely Greg, but we somehow got engaged over breakfast. Neither of us have a memory of it. I wish we did. All I know is I went over before work for breakfast and somehow we told each other we wanted to marry each other- who knows who said it first- and by the time I left for work everything was set except the date (in 5 weeks before school starts or the next break which was Christmas). I drove away in my car and before I reached my desitination I called him to say, "I just wanna get married, let's do it in September!" The actual "proposal" was a few days later when he seranaded me with a song he wrote after our first date (about me) and sang on one knee with his guitar and a dozen red roses. So romantic!

Who is more sensitive? By far me. I rarely get offended or hurt feelings, but scary movies, sad real life stories REALLY affect me. Greg is a good amount of sensitive.

Who has more friends? If Greg had more time, I feel like he'd have more friends. I suppose we're equal right now. I've never known a soul who didn't like Greg, he's just likable. There are PLENTLY of people in this life who have not liked me.

Who has more siblings? We both have 5 siblings. We are both number 4. He has 4 brothers, one sister. I have 4 sisters, one brother. Quite the coincidence.

Who wears the pants? I hate this question. I don't know how to answer it. There are no pants in the relationship. We both are sensible so nobody needs to be "controlled". For pride's sake I'd love to say I wear the pants but there's honestly never been a reason to wear them!